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Cheating is not a solution to your problem. Listen to yoyrself - go reread your post a few times. - While you are fat, you seek less attention and have no problwm being faithful. You fear more attention will lead to cheating. You sound like getting excess attention is the problem. The problem is in your head, your upbringing, or both. You need counseling to sort this out, it could be a high libido or it could be an addiction or other problem.
If you are committed to your marriage, you DON'T CHEAT period, regardless of libido.
Self-sex.
But you could be using this libido thing because you secretly want to cheat, better examine this closer.

Im 50! I was banded in 09 and am getting revised to bpass. Im looking at about Dec for band removal and feb for the bypass, my biggest advantage is that living with the band for the last 6 years i have a good idea of what im getting into, biggest fear is long term bypass complications. Dont really care about the flabby skin, ive already got that!

I thought I’d chime back in 😃 I survived my 6 months of Options classes and had my bypass surgery on March 7th 2016! It was a hard surgery for sure but I lost all my weight! Right now I feel nervous because I’ve gained back 10lbs it’s easy to slip into old habits once you’ve healed so really take advantage of the honeymoon!!!! I still feel fabulous and wore my size 10 jeans today with joy! I’ll get my 10 back off, best thing I ever did! Thank you Kaiser!! Great program!!!

I thought I’d chime back in 😃 I survived my 6 months of Options classes and had my bypass surgery on March 7th 2016! It was a hard surgery for sure but I lost all my weight! Right now I feel nervous because I’ve gained back 10lbs it’s easy to slip into old habits once you’ve healed so really take advantage of the honeymoon!!!! I still feel fabulous and wore my size 10 jeans today with joy! I’ll get my 10 back off, best thing I ever did! Thank you Kaiser!! Great program!!!

Im 50! I was banded in 09 and am getting revised to bpass. Im looking at about Dec for band removal and feb for the bypass, my biggest advantage is that living with the band for the last 6 years i have a good idea of what im getting into, biggest fear is long term bypass complications. Dont really care about the flabby skin, ive already got that!

Im on my fitness pal and Im 50!! Will be 51 this June, Ill tryto find you. My rny was 3-7 and my username is sophiasmithshrinks
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Don't worry it will get better.......be patient....eveything in life happens for a reason.

I had my rny 3-7 and I'm doing better! Im 50, f, 5"9, and have lost 20lbs. I'm 205 now and goal is 150.

Who would have thought it would be so hard to sip Water? ?? I keep bottles ALL over: on each bathroom counter, on my nitestand, on the coffee table...just as constant reminders, but it's a real effort to take even just one sip. 6 days post-op and exhausted, so KNOW I have to keep at it!

I had my rny 3-7 and I'm doing better! Im 50, f, 5"9, and have lost 20lbs. I'm 205 now and goal is 150.

My doctor has me take milk of magnesia too! I also had Constipation prior to my rny but its worse now. The milk of magnesia works like a charm!! Highly recommend it!

Im from California too! San Diego actually! Been overweight since childhood, like 8 yrs old or so.....always the big girl. I have no comorbidities (thank god). Im married with a 10yr old and Im 50. Had the lapband place in 2009 and removed 3 months ago......so happy to be doing this! Should have done it all along.

Just checking in! Im 12 days post op today and down 18.4 lbs that includes my pre op diet too. Feeling great and I can see the difference in my body already. Im now 207 and according to the charts should be 150 so Ive got a long way to go but am feeling very positive!

Im from California too! San Diego actually! Been overweight since childhood, like 8 yrs old or so.....always the big girl. I have no comorbidities (thank god). Im married with a 10yr old and Im 50. Had the lapband place in 2009 and removed 3 months ago......so happy to be doing this! Should have done it all along.

Hi!! I just got my bypass surgery date! March 14th!!! Id love to find some buddies......anyone?????

Pre op appointment is tomorrow and my surgery is this Monday! Sooooooo my last food is Saturday nights dinner.....Sunday is just Water crystal light and no sodium broth ... oh and lots of milk of magnesia....yummy!

Hi 50 somrthings! I got my surgery date!!!!! March 14th ..... so excited!!!! Bypass surgery....here I come!

Hi!! I just got my bypass surgery date! March 14th!!! Id love to find some buddies......anyone?????

Well, I had the band placed in November 09 and removed October 15 so this is the last time I want to go through wls. Ive heard of people bypassing the sleeve and I dont want anything but the strongest surgery I can get. I will have to check out that site obesity coverage. Com but I've heard from many sources youll loose more and faster with bypass.

Hi! Im 50 yrs 5"9 and 220 Id like to get to 160 so that's 60 lbs. I will be getting bypass within the month I hope, no date yet but I'll keep you posted. From what I read I could be at goal by June! So excited! !

Hi!! I just got my bypass surgery date! March 14th!!! Id love to find some buddies......anyone?????

I think that you should not drink at all. At 2 weeks out that your even thinking about it is a red flag in my opinion. I went through a 6 month support / educational class before my insurance would give me my surgery date and all I ever heard when we spoke about alcohol was "no". No more, none, never, full of empty calories and bypassed people have a very high chance of becoming alcoholics......just say no!

I think that you should not drink at all. At 2 weeks out that your even thinking about it is a red flag in my opinion. I went through a 6 month support / educational class before my insurance would give me my surgery date and all I ever heard when we spoke about alcohol was "no". No more, none, never, full of empty calories and bypassed people have a very high chance of becoming alcoholics......just say no!

Normal from what I hear!! It will be a good month before your energy is back.

Normal from what I hear!! It will be a good month before your energy is back.