Lanie992

I am 8 months out and nothing really tastes great to me, tbh. I don't have cravings really... I usually pick the thing I am wanting most, then I start eating it... and it's just, eh. Only thing that tastes great to me --- which I hadn't had really since my sleeve... was mayo. Yesterday I had a turkey sandwich on Aldi's keto bread and only the mayo tasted good to me. My favorite things in the world: chicken and ketchup - I really don't like anymore. Thing is - I am hungry a lot. Like 2 hours after I eat - I get hungry again, so I do still eat but it is merely to stop my stomach from growling/feeling hungry... not because I enjoy it.

Mine said I could have regular coffee at 3 weeks post-op, but he is one of the few surgeons who think caffeine apparently. I drink mostly decaf though. I drink coffee ALL day long -- it is the only way I can get my fluids in.

@ChubRub you look fantastic! Congratulations!

Ugh. I am petrified of that. I've been scared of having gallbladder problems since the surgery. I am going to the doctor tomorrow morning and see what she thinks. The back pain is minimal today but still there.

I do have insurance, but my copays are very high. I am going to go to my PCP first and see what she thinks. The pain is still there this morning, but not as bad. Of course it tends to be worse at night.. and come and go. Thank you for your advice!

Heya, I'm seeking advice. Since Christmas morning - I have had back pain from my waistline to my lower back all the way across. At first I thought I just strained muscles during my gym workout 2 days prior, but the pain has continued and progressively gotten worse. I've been using a heating paid & tylenol 3, then I took oxy for it (just twice) and it helped a lot. The pain comes & goes. Early this morning to mid-morning - I felt fine... but I had the Oxy the night before and slept 8 hours on the heating pad. The pain resurfaced about noon today, then progressively got my intense. My brother started thinking it was kidney related and I googled around and found many gastric sleeve patients get kidney stones.. I have some of the symptoms. I bought a AZO test to see if it was a UTI & the nitrite part was negative, but the leukocytes turned up positive (but the test strip was light colored, so if it truly is positive, then it's not by much). I was going to just go to my primary care tomorrow, but she won't be able to do Xrays. I got furloughed a few months ago from my job and got insurance via Obama care.. and it very expensive to go to the ER ($1,000 + cost of tests, etc). Urgent care will be a little less expensive, but of course they don't have the same equipment/care as the hospital. Do you guys think this sounds like it could be kidney related? What would you do in my situation?

Yes! And so sorry about the depression -- I have it too unfortunately. Winter months, even in warmer climates, can be depressing. You're doing great and will do just fine!

There is nothing you can do now about it - don't feel guilty. It solves nothing. A lot of the feelings of guilt lead to depression, then overeating in people with addictions to food. So don't look back -- only look ahead. You can't change it, so don't waste your time with it or risk doing it again by getting yourself down. Just concentrate on sticking to the diet from here on out. Chin up! Good luck! And let us know how you're feeling once you have the surgery!! Much ❤ to you.

Yes, definitely don't cheat anymore, but don't beat yourself over the cheating you did. What has been done -- has been done.. Nothing you can do to change it. Some doctors only do a week of a pre-surgery diet. My doctor didn't require me to do one at all (not sure if that's true of all his patients or if it was because I had a "lower" BMI). I don't want to scared you, but I did read a post on FB of a lady who went into surgery, got opened up and then they closed her up right away because her liver was too enlarged. They rescheduled her surgery. Think about how horrific that would be, so just continue on doing what you're supposed to do until your surgery!

Me too. I think I only have one picture of me during my pre-sleeve op and I was hidden behind people so you can only see my face & can't tell my weight. I do wish I would have taken some of myself to keep for comparisons, but out with old and in with the new. Anyway congratulations on the plastics. I hope everything goes well for you and there isn't too much pain. I will be keeping tabs on your progress, so keep us in the loop.

Just wanted to say HI, sleeve twin (we had our surgeries 1 day apart).. Looks like you are doing really good on the weight loss!! Congrats.

There is no way I could eat 800 calories one month out. I would have been in bed sick all day. Just do the best you can do. Make sure to get your protein in and take your vitamins and listen to your body. Most of those dieticians have never even been through the surgery, so they have no idea what it is like.

Honestly I feel like it could easily become a whole different type of eating disorder for some of us. It is so easy to replace eating with obsessing over losing weight/obsessing over the scale/calories, etc.

I know you're not asking about eating real food but just thought this might be helpful info which will make you not be tempted at all. Food will hurt right now anyway. Even soft food hurt me during the "soft food" stage. Your stomach needs time to heal. You will be in a world of hurt if you tried to eat real food now, not to mention it could get stuck in your sutures and cause a leak. Not going to lie -- this stage sucks.. I just ate sugar-free popsicles and protein drinks during that time. Some jello. Broth grossed me out & I didn't like it, so I only did that once. I am going to do a "reset" after the holiday to see if I can shrink my pouch & kick start losing some more weight.. not looking forward to it. (reset is when you go back through the beginning stages -- liquids being the first step). Some positives: you will likely lose the most weight during this period. And your stomach pouch will be the smallest it has ever been in this stage (7 months out & mine has stretched someone.. I wish I had my tiny pouch back).. I wish I could give you some advice to help you feel better.. Just know this only lasts a few weeks -- it seems like an eternity when you're in the midst of it, but in a few months - it will just be a memory!

That is amazing! You did SO good! I am having to transition from cardio to weight training too. I have done some weight training but not that much. I get sort of intimidated from doing a lot of the arm stuff because all the men are over in that part of the gym. LOL I know it's silly but I like to hang in the abs/legs section where the girls tend to be. I will get over it though.