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I'm 4 weeks post RNY operation. I've noticed that now that I'm unable to eat food I get angry about food. I get mad that I can't eat, mad at my friends and family because they can eat what they want and I even get angry at the fact that I drive past so many restaurants etc... Is anyone else struggling with this at all? Does anyone have any ideas on how I can change that thought process and not let it bother me so bad? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I started my Surgery Process in March 2018 and I didn't get my surgery until April 2019. I see a huge difference between last year and now! 455-375 lbs Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I'm about 50 days post-op and the skin on my forearms and my face have dark patches and small bumps and zits. I'm wondering if this is normal because of the hormonal changes that with the weight loss? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I confess that I'm on the last week of my pureed diet and I've struggled since day 4 after surgery. I was doing great before surgery and had few issues with pure liquid. I didn't know I was doing it wrong but I was eating some pureed food during the liquid diet post surgery (don't say I can have strained soup and not inform me that broccoli cheddar soup is a no lol), I was eating applesauce too because I listened to the wrong nurse. Week 3 of pureed diet and I feel like I screw up every single day! I'm only eating 2 times a day because pureed foods aren't very satisfying and when I do eat I have more than 1/3 cup portion that I'm allowed. I strive to do better every day though! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

Definitely talk to your Primary care Dr or Gynecology Dr about it. I'm 32 and had my surgery on the 1st of April and I'm already feeling changes during my cycle. Pre-menopause runs in my family and I've been told to watch for symptoms. My mother had her Pre-menopause start after she had her last child (me) at 30. My OBGYN told me that Estrogen stores in fat cells and that after losing large amounts of weight your body's hormonal balances can go haywire and cause lots of problems. Good luck no matter what happens in your future and great job on your WL! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I'm on the 2nd week of my pureed diet and I've really struggled with it. I keep eating food that's not pureed and I know that it's not what I'm supposed to be doing. I'm just hungry all the time and then I eat too much and hurt. I did some soul searching and realized that I can't do this to myself or I'll ruin my chance of success. So I went back to protein shakes even though I don't have to. Every time I thought I needed to eat I got up and moved around. I'm realizing just how much food effects every facet of my life. So instead of focusing on the food so much I'm going to focus on movement. My Dr told me that it's very important to focus on myself for the next year because I'm going to be going through a lot of physical and mental changes. And that is exactly what I'm going to do! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank you so much! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

You're right it won't last forever. I am much more optimistic about everything now Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I've been to OA meetings in my area and they were helpful and the people were nice. I don't attend anymore but I do have a book that's about the process of OA. It's all about looking within yourself, finding out what your triggers are and learning to cope with them while you give up your trigger foods and habits. It's a lot of self reflection and problem solving. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

That looks soooo tasty! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

Thank all of you so much for your support and I definitely don't feel alone in this anymore. I'm going to work harder and get my self together! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

Thanks for the encouragement! I just feel like I'm being ridiculous but at the same time I know I'll calm down lol Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

What that nurse said and how she treated you was unacceptable in every way! Definitely report that behavior! I'm sorry you had to go through that! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I got my RNY surgery on April 1st. Im very heavy and I'm short so thats what I needed for optimum weight loss. My bariatric surgeon told me that they do tons of sleeve to bypass surgeries because the sleeves fail for multiple reasons. My sister in law got the sleeve 2 years ago and had major complications with strictures. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I struggled with the strict protein shakes before surgery. The only thing that kept me on track was asking myself if it was worth it a fter all I've had to go through to get this surgery? Eventually you'll be able to eat normal food again so not risking it would probably be a better choice. That's just my opinion. Good luck no matter what you choose! Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using BariatricPal mobile app

I'm in the pureed food portion of my post-op diet and I notice that I'm gaining some weight back. I admit that I have been messing up a lot with my eating choices. I'm struggling with balancing the things I'm supposed to be doing. I'm supposed to eat 5 small meals a day of 1/4 cup portions, drink a protein shake, drink water and take my vitamins. I'm not drinking the protein shake, I don't eat until later in the day, I'm not making healthy food choices when I do eat, I cant seem to slow my eating down to 15 minutes. Does anyone have any ideas to help me or words of wisdom/support?

Thanks for all the support! I am going to do much better now

You're right! I'm going to get my crap together and rock this opportunity like a geologist! lol Thank you so much for the inspiration

I've been eating Wolf brand no bean chili. I add onion and garlic to it and cook it for awhile until the onion is tender. I only have to lightly puree it because it already has very small meat chunks.

I had my surgery on April 1st and am really struggling with the fluid intake and lack of weight loss. My dietician said that women struggle more with the weight loss because during our periods we retain water and gain weight. I was told that drinking fluids is the most important part of the healing process. Something I've found helpful is getting a steamer from my local coffee stand. 16oz steamed milk with sugar free flavorings. The warm liquid goes down easier and it also relaxes your intestines.

Ok, I'm 10 days out of surgery and I've developed a bad allergy to the glue the Dr used to seal my incisions. I had to have it removed and now I'm finding it difficult to function with these itchy hives all over my stomach! Has anyone else had any problems with this?