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Wendums

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    Wendums reacted to Healthy_life2 in Changed mind about WLS?   
    Surgery is a personal decision. it's not for everyone. Many people have changed their minds and backed out. Understand that they usually don't stay on a weight loss surgery chat forum.

    I needed along term solution. I'm still maintaining my weight over four years. I had no complication's and bounced back quickly from surgery. No regrets

    This is a big decision. Do what's best for you.

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    Wendums got a reaction from Ed_NW in Changed mind about WLS?   
    Are you sure you're ready for this major decision?
    I knew I was, I had hit rock bottom, I surrendered to the fact that I had no self control to do it on my own. My health was starting to fail me and in desperation I looked into WLS. I am so glad that I did, I had never thought it was for me in the past, I always thought that I should do it on my own. This surgery changes you, and the way you think about food. At least it did for me. I have this new baby tummy and I need to protect it. It was a gift and I am treating it as such. Good luck on your decision, and if you feel you can do it on your own you should try to do so first in my opinion. I think if WLS is right for you, you will know it deep inside, and it will be one of the most important things in your life.
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    Wendums reacted to DamnDawn81 in Iron Deficient?   
    Hi Everyone. I’m about 11 months post op and feeling very sh*tty. Unfortunately I lost my job a few months ago and lost insurance so I haven’t been able to get my labs done. I never took Iron to begin with, I was told originally I didn’t need it. I now am wondering if how I’m feeling is an iron deficiency? My hands and feet are very cold, almost numb, more often then not. I’m very weak, no energy, not a lot of strength and confused at times, like can’t concentrate...sometime I feel shortness of breath but I thought it was just anxiety about the other symptoms, it’s just an overall feeling of not feeling well.

    Has anyone experienced this? These symptoms?

    Any advice would help! Thanks so much!
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    Wendums reacted to Its_Kai in How did you calm your nerves before surgery?   
    Hi everyone, I'm new to posting but have lurked here before and I'm so thankful for this community and all information and stories shared. I'm having my VSG surgery in 2 days 2/25/19 and I'm incredibly nervous, excited, terrified, happy...Just a mess of emotions. It doesn't help that I've never had surgery before. I'm sure these feelings are normal but I'm typically a zen, chilled out person so my question is... what are some things you did PRE-OP to calm your nerves before surgery?
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    Wendums got a reaction from Ed_NW in Changed mind about WLS?   
    Are you sure you're ready for this major decision?
    I knew I was, I had hit rock bottom, I surrendered to the fact that I had no self control to do it on my own. My health was starting to fail me and in desperation I looked into WLS. I am so glad that I did, I had never thought it was for me in the past, I always thought that I should do it on my own. This surgery changes you, and the way you think about food. At least it did for me. I have this new baby tummy and I need to protect it. It was a gift and I am treating it as such. Good luck on your decision, and if you feel you can do it on your own you should try to do so first in my opinion. I think if WLS is right for you, you will know it deep inside, and it will be one of the most important things in your life.
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    Wendums reacted to Ed_NW in Changed mind about WLS?   
    I WISH I could've tricked myself into thinking I was a health nut that ate right and worked out all the time. Unfortunately that's not possible. It's called yo-yo dieting and is the reason most people on this forum opted for WLS. Once you get to a point where you are tired of failing at fad diets and your health has deteriorated to a point that only drastic measures will work, then you will be ready to consider WLS. It's a serious reminder/tool that you were in a bad place and an early death was imminent.
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    Wendums reacted to binfinite in Submitted = Still waiting   
    Well I finally got the psychology approval which took the longest to come back for some reason and found out everything was submitted to insurance on 02/20/19.. omg I can’t believe how much I’ve been stressing over this.. It seems like thoughts of this take over most of my day.. I’m trying my best to be positive and I am so looking forward to this new journey in life. I’ve even eaten all my fairwell foods cause I know after this I’m done! I’m working on a mental change now as I know this is a must in order to be successful. I can even tell the difference going from Keto to crap. I’m excited to get back on track! I wonder how long this approval will take. I’ve seen so many different ranges. I’m sure hoping it’s quick and even more hopeful for a yes! I’ll take a slow yes over a quick no! I know most of everyone has been through this before and I appreciate all the feedback I’ve received from you guys! I can’t wait to join the cool kids club lol! Many blessings & continued success to all! And If your like me waiting I guess we just gotta keep hanging till we get to the other side!
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    Wendums reacted to DanaC84 in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    I’m going to have to look into the bio oil too. I’ve used Eucerin Advanced Therapy lotion for years due to the dry skin from diabetes so that’s all I’m currently using . But my face!! I’ve had the exact opposite. Since surgery I’ve been getting zits! I’ve had to go back to using Stridex and Clearasil . Haven’t had that problem in 40 years . But I’ll swap a zit for pounds any day of the week
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    Wendums reacted to Kara Eckel in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    I used Vitamin E on my stomach area, primarily to help with healing but I've noticed my skin seems much firmer since I've been using it. I started about 1 month post op. Prior to that I had just been using regular lotion on my scars, my surgeon recommended Vitamin E.
    Recently I started using St. Ives collagen and elastin lotion on the rest of my body, it's been about 2-3 weeks. I'm noticing a difference for sure, definitely a lot softer and the crepey skin that is above my knees seems to be less. I also use that on my neck area and it seems to be helping there as well.
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    Wendums got a reaction from Liz The New Me in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    I've never heard of Boi Oil but it's going on my shopping list, and the Gold Bond neck firming lotion.. Thanks for the suggestions.
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    Wendums reacted to KimTriesRNY in So tired of drinking.   
    It gets easier. 😀
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    Wendums got a reaction from KimTriesRNY in So tired of drinking.   
    Wake up Protein Shake, all day Water water water, if i didn't get enough food Protein in that day, another protein shake. I really struggle to get it all down, I know it's a lifestyle change, but this is one of those things where I fell short pre-surgery. And it's not like my surgery placed a magic spell over me to make me suddenly enjoy drinking alllll day long. I'll just keep on truckin along, with the daily forcing of drinks.. sure hope it gets easier, I'm almost a month out and it hasn't yet. ☹️
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    Wendums reacted to James Marusek in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    After surgery, my face developed very paper thin fine wrinkles, the kind that you see on 100 year old people. Granted I am no young spring chicken at the current age of 70 but these really fine wrinkles was disconcerting. My wife advised me to use Bio-Oil on my face and that took away the wrinkles. You can find this product in drug stores like CVS or Walmart and at other places.
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    Wendums reacted to S@ssen@ch in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    I second the Bio-oil. I started using it as soon as my incisions healed. I apply after a shower/bath and use it everywhere (arms, legs, hips, abdomen, chest). I can't say that it has totally prevented sagging issues, but my skin is sure soft and I have virtually no scars from my incisions.
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    Wendums reacted to Jazzy1125 in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    Thank you for the info. I will definitely look up that oil and see what the benefits are.

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    Wendums reacted to GradyCat in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    Really? Good to know! I'm already using Bio-Oil on my scars from the sleeve surgery, so now I'll try some on my face! Woo-hoo!
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    Wendums reacted to Liz The New Me in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    I didn't know about the Bio-oil but will try it. I am using Vitamin E, I spray on after shower. And sometimes Aloe lotion too. I just stated on the Gold Bond Neck firming cream also and it's been helping also.
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    Wendums got a reaction from Liz The New Me in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    Hello!
    I'm currently one month post op and have noticed that I am getting considerably leaner skin already, it's not all puffy like it use to be. Which makes me realize that I need lotions and creams, and whatever I need to use to help my skin go through this changing time. I'm hoping to have it bounce back the best it can. I am realistic, but I'm hoping there are some good products that can at least help it along. I'm looking for body, face, neck, and any other targeted lotions, creams, or treatments you may have tried. And if they were a win or a fail. Thank you to whoever takes the time to help me out ❤️
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    Wendums got a reaction from Liz The New Me in What Lotions & Creams have you tried during weightloss.   
    Hello!
    I'm currently one month post op and have noticed that I am getting considerably leaner skin already, it's not all puffy like it use to be. Which makes me realize that I need lotions and creams, and whatever I need to use to help my skin go through this changing time. I'm hoping to have it bounce back the best it can. I am realistic, but I'm hoping there are some good products that can at least help it along. I'm looking for body, face, neck, and any other targeted lotions, creams, or treatments you may have tried. And if they were a win or a fail. Thank you to whoever takes the time to help me out ❤️
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    Wendums reacted to Frustr8 in The date has come   
    It will be wonderful
    it will be great
    Big Changes but just you wait. Peacefully you'll go to sleep
    Happy you'll awake
    This commitment to your future
    Is the Next Choice You'll ever make
    God Bless and Keep You safe for your little ones.
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    Wendums reacted to Rayeh7 in The date has come   
    I did the same thing yesterday even amidst my strong faith. Thankfully everything went great. I do have some pain but it is much better then I thought it would be. I even walked to my door and back to chair where I sat for almost an hour.....yay me and I can't wait to say: yay you!
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    Wendums reacted to Orchids&Dragons in The date has come   
    Congrats and best wishes for an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery!
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    Wendums reacted to myriam569 in The date has come   
    Today is the day my turn to go under. I am ok just a bit nervous dont now why I just keep thinking of my kids but I have faith everything will be fine
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    Wendums got a reaction from DanaC84 in Counting down & preparing a bag.   
    Oh wow i just noticed your countdown.. Congrats and good luck on a smooth surgery & recovery. I remember I was so excited the night before. Hope your day tomorrow is full of positive energy, you got this. 😄
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    Wendums got a reaction from DanaC84 in Counting down & preparing a bag.   
    Same ^^^ and my cpap machine. I just showered when I got home.

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