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Jeffrey Stern

Gastric Bypass Patients
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About Jeffrey Stern

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  • Birthday 07/26/1960

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    Toronto
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    Ontario, Canada

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  1. It seems I've hit raw nerve with Greensleevie. According to her everyone fails at the bariatric surgery no matter what. And only she knows better because she has experience so all the doctors and nutritionists and all the programs that the hospital has put me through to make sure I do have a successful outcome are full of crap because Greensleevie says so. 

     So what is the point of going through all this if there is no hope for a successful outcome.  According to her I don't have the will to have a good outcome. I MUST FAIL and she says so. Weeee ...here goes a very sad and depressing road to no where. So if she fails or has a hard go of it...than everyone else must follow suit. NO ONE can have a positive experience and have good and healthy life after bariatric surgery. Again what's the point of going through this ??? 

    I am told I'm immature and  I protest too much because I'm a "newbie" I don't get to say how I should live my life... I must be a moron.

    Any one out there looking for positive feedback or a good role-model or some positive reinforcement look some place else... this is sickening

    I have made a conscious decision to be the best and healthiest I can be. Why does that bother people. Too much negative feed back I must say good-bye this is very sad and I won't be a part of it.  

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    2. Greensleevie

      Greensleevie

      So he can call me out on a status update for all to see, but I'm not allowed to respond?

      I never personally attacked him. I was hypothetically pointing out the pitfalls of regain and bariatric surgery. He instantly personally attacks me and insists I said he and everyone else fails at this surgery. I said no such thing. Then he slams me in a status update, but I'm supposed to just let it go while he can continue to talk ****?

      I see a double standard here.

    3. MowryRocks

      MowryRocks

      @Greensleevie I think its completely appropriate to respond, but I think your response was borderline cruel. Regardless of your intent, you obviously hurt his feelings. Yes, he called you out publicly, which I don't necessarily agree with either, but publicly defending yourself and throwing it back in his face only proves his point.

      This is really all that was needed...

      "I never personally attacked him. I was hypothetically pointing out the pitfalls of regain and bariatric surgery. He instantly personally attacks me and insists I said he and everyone else fails at this surgery."

    4. Greensleevie

      Greensleevie

      Fair enough @MowryRocks. I agree.

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