Cheeselife

I turned 21 years old a month before my surgery. I had my surgery in May. I drink occasionally now! Even told my doctor and they're okay with it as long as I don't abuse it and become dependent on it.

In addition to the issues of basic healing time, the prospect of transfer addiction, and "cheap drunk" tolerance changes the other biggie that tickles some docs more than others is liver health - as WLS patients, our livers usually aren't in the best of shape due to our obesity (hence the number of surgeons who put their patients through those "liver shrinking" pre-op diets,) and the extra load that the liver takes in metabolizing that fat that we are burning off doesn't leave it much margin for handling the added load of metabolizing the alcohol, which after all, is a liver toxin (that's not a moral judgement, it's just biology - there are plenty of things that we consume in small quantities that are toxic in larger amounts,) My doc is a bit more anal about this than most as he also does liver transplants in his spare time and doesn't want to see his bariatric patients coming back on his transplant table. His rule (which we sign up to when signing up with him) is no alky while in the weight loss phase; after that, moderation is fine once the liver has regained the ability to do its' job (though in his view, ideally never...)
Those are the issues, we are all adults, take if for what you will.

As I posted in another thread "those Isopure zero carb drinks go down a lot easier with a shot of vodka in them".
Anyway, you're fine. Just don't do it every day.

I never drink and drive, and I have a wonderful support system at home, just going to miss watching a movie with a few beers with my hubby on a Friday night!
I'm also in therapy, started 3 years ago. Planning for knitting to be my transfer addiction, right now I only knit for a couple of hours a day, so I'll have more time for it once I've divorced food.

My surgeon told me that it was allowed but to make sure to consume with moderation because it is empty calories and can affect overall weight loss. Alcohol is absorbed in the intestines, so after gastric sleeve surgery the alcohol also reaches your bloodstream faster.
I've consumed some alcohol on occasion and learned that I can drink a light beer or two, but I have to pour it into a glass and let the carbonation fully exit. Pouring fast for a large, foaming head helps that happen. I can also tolerate uncarbonated mixed drinks like a vodka with cranberry juice without any issues. So far I've stayed away from anything carbonated other than the beer.
Three things to note: 1) there is still carbonation in the beer which can slow consumpiton and possibly make for some uncomfortability; 2) the alcohol does affect me sooner - the feeling I used to get after 4 or 5 drinks pre-surgery now hits me after 1 or 2; and 3) I've found if I have more than one occasional alcoholic drink it does slow down my weight loss, as it is extra calories and since they are liquid they don't limit my hunger or solid food intake.
To me it is basically a moderation thing - if you can have an occasional alcoholic drink or two worked into your nutrition plan and still maintain the weight loss targets you seek then you should be fine. If you have challenges moderating alcohol intake then it is probably best to stay away from it entirely.

I was planning on excercise and sex to be my transfer addictions but neither really worked out for me
Now that's an addiction right there. But I say no to excersice lol

I was planning on excercise and sex to be my transfer addictions but neither really worked out for me As for booze, yes, you will be able to drink again. I treat it like any other carb and indulge in moderation. Personally, I can't tolerate beer or other carbonated drinks at all, but ice cold Apple Crown Royal goes down just fine! Oh yea, and a Bloody Mary counts as a veggie.

I never drink and drive, and I have a wonderful support system at home, just going to miss watching a movie with a few beers with my hubby on a Friday night!
I'm also in therapy, started 3 years ago. Planning for knitting to be my transfer addiction, right now I only knit for a couple of hours a day, so I'll have more time for it once I've divorced food.

i was told no booze for a year some have been told 6 months it all depends on your surgeon just make sure you look into transfer addiction and be sure not to be the driver when you drink because you really dont know how it will affect you

Please tell me we can still have it! I'm assuming I'll need to follow the liquid rules as far as slow sipping and non-carbonated goes, and I know it's just empty calories, but we can still have it afterwards, right?? Otherwise I'm going to need ALL your unused pain meds to help me survive my children's teen years.
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It sounds like she had trouble separating her own experience from yours, maybe?
I saw two psychologists. The first was in my town, she was an older lady. Her 'office' was in a tiny room on the second floor of a scary falling down house that had converted into offices. Apparently this was her temporary office while her regular office was renovated. There was clutter piled up to waist height, with a path between the door and the desk, old pictures, dead plants, old heaters and air conditioners, piles of papers. Her desk had more dead plants, papers, and ornaments. I paid my copay by check, which was added to a pile of other checks. It's been 4 months, the check hasn't been cashed yet. She quizzed me about my mother's dieting habits while I was young. For 50 minutes. She said we needed a few more sessions. I didn't go back.
My second psychologist works from the same hospital as my surgeon, they knew each other. I was there 45 minutes, in his clean office surrounded by clean glass. He asked me what I was expecting, what I'd tried, what I thought. He was pleased I'd done so much research into the procedure, the outcome, and the surgeon. I paid my copay by debit card.
They're all different. If you don't click with one, or they insist on more sessions you don't need, go find someone else. If they approve you anyway, just chalk it up to experience. Avoid them in the future, but don't let it put you off seeing a mental health professional when you think you could do with someone to listen to you properly!
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I was so sure I'd have more of a battle, it's a shock to be approved and have a date! Now the reality is gradually settling on me and the worries are making themselves known.
My current biggest worry is a surprise, after so long wishing I wasn't so fat, I'm now honestly worried about being slim, like I'll miss being fat, or won't know how to dress or act.
I thought I'd be worried about the surgery itself, but I'm not so far. That will come, I'm sure.
I'm worried about diet before and after, I'm trying to see it as divorce from an abusive relationship, which helps. It will be strange to have to learn how to cook and eat again, and how to enjoy family meals in a new way. I'm married with 2 children and I cook from scratch every day.
None of this is new, I know, but it's new to me! Please feel free to tell me to shut up and deal!!

thanks so much for the info for support! I joined the Shrinkyourself.com and bought the ebook by Dr. Tanie. I've been a mess but feel hope now. My insurance company approved me and I go in for an EGD Dec. 9th. I'm expecting to be scheduled soon. I went all through the WLS process 2 years ago and backed out. Now 30 pounds heavier I'm back to it. I've reached out on this site and unfortunately never gotten support and have felt so lost. Thanks again for the much needed material.

My date is 12/14/15. I feel you.

You feelings are not unusual. Many have them. It's a new body that for some may mean learning an new way of life. If you are feeling really nervous, you may want to seek out counseling.

The worst I'll ever tell you is to shut up and eat your vegetables. This is new to you, therefore, new again in the world. It's like a collective Groundhog Day.
Your fear of being slim is common. There are many things that may go into it, including fear of the [at least long-term] unknown and fear of giving up the shield, cumbersome as it is. You've already devised a "divorce" and, because it is helping, it's great. It can take time to work through the real emotions or even to uncover them. That's okay. At some point you may want to work with a therapist. There are also print and online resources. Try http://shrinkyourself.com
the website of psychologist Roger Gould. It's about emotional eating and emotions related to weight and weight control overall. The site offers a pay version and, of course, sells Dr. Gould's book, but you can stick with the free emailed newsletters if you register.
Another is a guided workbook, "The Weight Loss Surgery Coping Companion: A Practical Guide for Coping with Post-Surgery Emotions," by Tanie Miller Kabala, also a psychologist. It might even be useful to you now, before surgery. Because things keep changing through the journey, I suggest using a notebook for the exercises. Keeping the book itself clean makes it easier to revisit it as needed. [Full disclosure: My WLS NP gave me her copy to look through while I was waiting for my appt. I requested a review copy from Dr. Kabala so that the people who attend the clothing exchange I organize could browse through it. I have no role in sales and no financial interest.]
What you're experiencing now is expected and manageable.