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nearperfectmess

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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from CaliforniaCandy in Gastric Bypass Surgery Progress Pictures   
    So many times I'm like "I don't see it!" But today I had my 3 month post-op visit with my NP and I'm down 76lbs since surgery (ahhh!) and 104lbs since October.
    Before taken 3/15/16 (the night before surgery). After taken this afternoon.
    Although - I miss my butt. lol. Gotta work on that.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from lynettecarter in How about some NSVs!?!?   
    @@RJC5197 - that is the BEST feeling. I've had to donate 5 bags of clothes already. I did not think ahead to put a big enough clothes buying budget aside. lol. I'm paying the price now (literally). I'm trying not to buy too much, but when you go from a 50/52" waist to a 36" in 12 weeks - the old stuff quickly starts to get baggy. Congrats on your loss!
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from SleevyB in March Surgery!   
    How are my March surgery peeps doing? We're almost a year out now!
    Things haven't been without their set-backs (the broken feet, etc), but I'm excited to be almost a year out and see where things are. Especially now that I'm starting to get some hunger back and able to eat and drink things a little more easily. I've given into a few bad things, but still trying to stick to the plan!
    Down to 181 from my HW of 330, SW of 300. ONE lb shy of 150lbs down. That extra pound is driving me nuts!
    Me as of about a month ago:

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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from pvechiola in How fast are you losing weight?   
    You'll start to even out. Don't get discouraged! I know it's hard.
    2.5 lbs may not seem like a lot, but it adds up!
    I'm about 10 months out, and down 119lbs (SW 300, CW 181). That's about 2.64 lbs a week. The weekly average doesn't seem like a lot, but after 10 months, I'm a size 32 pant in men's and a comfortable medium shirt - I was a size 52 pant and a 2/3X shirt in March of 2016. I know it's hard not to focus on that number, but the more you don't let it rule your life and focus on getting proper nutrition (Protein, Water and all of that fun stuff) and setting yourself up for success, the better off you'll be!
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from adriant in March Surgery!   
    AHHH! I just found out today that my surgery date is March 16th. 3 weeks from tomorrow.
    It all seems so fast. I just started this process with an all day appointment at mayo Clinic in November, and the time has FLOWN by.
    I had my last visit with the psychologist on Friday and she signed off/discharged me then. I got the call from the surgical scheduler today and, I'm not even going to lie, started freaking out a little (okay, a lot).
    Anyone else with March dates? My birthday is March 10th, so I can't think of a better way to usher in 33 than a new me.
    I'm starting to get more nervous, but I keep telling myself that it's all for the better.
    One preop visit, one lab visit, one bypass diet visit and then surgery. I don't know if anyone else has gone to Mayo Clinic, but they do not mess around. I've had to keep a significant food log (with pre and post-meal feelings) since November, had to cut out any alcohol and most caffeine and had to significantly increase exercise in order to be discharged.
    Sorry, I'm kinda freaking out here. All of the forums here have been a massive help thus far, and I hope to post/contribute more as I go through the process.
    WHEEE!
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Donegirl4life in March Surgery!   
    March surgery peeps! How is everyone doing?
    I broke both of my feet and have been non-ambulatory, but I'm holding steady at 189. I'm hoping to get these darn casts off in a few weeks so I can get down another 10 or 15 (which is crazy, considering my ultimate goal weight was 200lbs - and now it's 175lbs). I'm sure it'll be hard with the holidays, but I'm trying!
    Hope all of you are doing well!


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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from LisaMergs in Hit goal at 6 months...now what? :/   
    I'm one week shy of 6 months from surgery (RnY), and I've already hit my goal weight of 200lbs (this was the weight discussed with my surgical team and my own personal goal). My highest weight last year was 330 and my weight when I began the process was 328, so I'm about 130lbs down since October of 2015, 100 on the nose from surgery.
    So...now what? My surgical team advised it would most likely be 9 mos - 1 year before I hit my goal and would probably plateau many times along the way. i guess I'm kinda concerned that I've lost so much, so fast, and haven't really plateaued at all (even though I was mentally preparing myself for it). This isn't a boastful post in any way, shape or form. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else has hit goal this fast and...where do you go from here? Did you lose a lot more past your goal? My bariatric NP said to enjoy it and lose as much as I can.
    I'm looking at running a 5k in the next few weeks, and I worry with the increase in exercise, I may lose even more, faster. Proper nutrition while training is also going to be a major concern, but my dietitian gave me the name of an RD that has a site - BariAthletes, who deals specifically with this.
    Thanks, all!
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess reacted to ahappycamper in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I've yet to actually get sleeved, but it's just around the corner! To be approved for surgery, I had to wait 6 months and complete a checklist of doctors to visit. During that time I had monthly nutritionist appointments where I would be weighed. There was no weight loss requirement for my insurance approval, but it was obviously encouraged to work some off prior to surgery.
    My final nutritionist appointment was in September. I'd done well the first four months but gained ten of 15 I'd lost back by the final appointment. It is now 2 months since then, and I was able to drop the ten I gained back and then some.
    Five years ago my dad died somewhat unexpectedly and I gained about 80-90lbs on top of weighing 260-70 at the time. My highest weight was in the 340s. Recently I weighed in at under 300lbs for the first time in years and today, I weighed 286! This is closest I've been to my pre-grief weight since I started this process.
    I'm looking forward to my big day on the 22nd.
    Sent From BariatricPal App
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess reacted to Dub in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    12.5 months post op.
    Off all prescription meds save a new anti-inflammatory I started on Thursday.
    Received lab work results from one year appointment.
    Pretty much a glowing report card.
    Cholesterol, blood pressure and etc all in excellent shape. My sleeve has been awesome.
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    nearperfectmess reacted to Joy@boman in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    My daughter took my pic today and I only had one chin!
    Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App
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    nearperfectmess reacted to highfunctioningfatman in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    After losing 60 pounds I finally had someone this week who hadn't seen me in awhile go "damn you lost weight!". I just came back from the grocery store and I ran into a patient, he immediately asked if I had lost weight. I wasn't looking for validation but I had literally said to my wife and my boss (who had vsg) that I was disappointed that nobody except people who know about my surgery have said anything about my weight. I'm no longer disappointed! It encouraged me to look at my food journal and realize that I was making some mistakes. Those mistakes weren't bad choices, they were too little Protein and calories.
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    nearperfectmess reacted to Daniel2015 in New pics!   
    Nearperfectmess, thanks! It does feel amazing. Congrats on your accomplishment, too.
    Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Alex Brecher in Time to Brag: Share Your Recent Accomplishments!   
    I broke BOTH of my feet. Both. I broke my left foot 8 weeks ago (the night before my first scheduled 5k!) and found out last week I have a stress fracture in my right foot from overcompensation. Now I have two boots on and have been homebound for the last 7+ weeks (I'm supposed to be non-ambulatory). Unfortunately, this has meant a LOT of time on the sofa in front of the TV.
    My accomplishment? I haven't gained weight. There have been times that I felt like getting back into old habits (ordering Chinese for lunch on GrubHub? That thin crust pizza from Domino's is SO cheap...! Oh em gee, Coldstone DELIVERS?!), but I've resisted. And even though I cannot work out, and my weight hasn't really gone down (it's been pretty stable for a few weeks), I haven't gained and haven't gone back to old habits.
    And I'm craving a good, sweaty workout. WHO AM I?! lol.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from LisaMergs in Hit goal at 6 months...now what? :/   
    I'm one week shy of 6 months from surgery (RnY), and I've already hit my goal weight of 200lbs (this was the weight discussed with my surgical team and my own personal goal). My highest weight last year was 330 and my weight when I began the process was 328, so I'm about 130lbs down since October of 2015, 100 on the nose from surgery.
    So...now what? My surgical team advised it would most likely be 9 mos - 1 year before I hit my goal and would probably plateau many times along the way. i guess I'm kinda concerned that I've lost so much, so fast, and haven't really plateaued at all (even though I was mentally preparing myself for it). This isn't a boastful post in any way, shape or form. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else has hit goal this fast and...where do you go from here? Did you lose a lot more past your goal? My bariatric NP said to enjoy it and lose as much as I can.
    I'm looking at running a 5k in the next few weeks, and I worry with the increase in exercise, I may lose even more, faster. Proper nutrition while training is also going to be a major concern, but my dietitian gave me the name of an RD that has a site - BariAthletes, who deals specifically with this.
    Thanks, all!
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Icantbelieveit in Hit goal at 6 months...now what? :/   
    I hate to say it, but it's true. They did warn my entire bariatric class at mayo that men do lose faster than women.
    It's interesting to see my post and where I am now.
    I'm now 7 months out from surgery and blew way past my goal. I'm 189lbs now (OMG), for a total loss of 141lbs since November of last year and 111lbs since surgery. And not too long after that last post I took a tumble with my dog and broke my foot, and have been in a cast since (and will be for another 7 weeks). I was nervous that I'd gain weight, but I'm still losing. So much that my NP told me the other day that I may get to the point that people start to say that I'm "too thin" or look gaunt. She said I will eventually gain some back and will even out, but to lose as much as I can (safely) so that I'm in a good position.
    Being at home for a few weeks was a good challenge to stay away from snacking and eating while bored. I had a snack here or there, but made good choices and somehow, I'm 11lbs under my original goal.
    I'm also REALLY sick of buying new clothes. lol
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    nearperfectmess reacted to DeletedMember in Hit goal at 6 months...now what? :/   
    No, I was down 133lbs 4.5 months post-op, but that was about 6 months after I began my pre-op weight loss. So it was 133lbs in 6 months, not 4.5.
    As an update, I'm down to 165 as of this morning. I'm now half the man I used to be, and only 1 pound away from being at a "normal" BMI. I'm now at 168 lbs lost in a total of 8 months and 10 days.
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from lovincasey in I ate solids 10 days post op.....feel like a loser   
    You can do it! I, too, questioned why I had done it the first few weeks after, but IT GETS BETTER. Trust. I'm 7 weeks out today and starting to feel more normal. The soft/pureed food stages are the hardest, but it's a great time to get creative. I've tried to think of it as an adventure instead of a hindrance.
    We've all been through it here. And if you can't get the advice/answers you need on here, contact your surgeon's office to see if they can connect you with someone who can help you through it. You're stronger than sausage!
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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from Donegirl4life in March Surgery!   
    You look amazing!!! Congratulations!
    Mine is attached!

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    nearperfectmess got a reaction from LisaMergs in Hit goal at 6 months...now what? :/   
    I'm one week shy of 6 months from surgery (RnY), and I've already hit my goal weight of 200lbs (this was the weight discussed with my surgical team and my own personal goal). My highest weight last year was 330 and my weight when I began the process was 328, so I'm about 130lbs down since October of 2015, 100 on the nose from surgery.
    So...now what? My surgical team advised it would most likely be 9 mos - 1 year before I hit my goal and would probably plateau many times along the way. i guess I'm kinda concerned that I've lost so much, so fast, and haven't really plateaued at all (even though I was mentally preparing myself for it). This isn't a boastful post in any way, shape or form. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else has hit goal this fast and...where do you go from here? Did you lose a lot more past your goal? My bariatric NP said to enjoy it and lose as much as I can.
    I'm looking at running a 5k in the next few weeks, and I worry with the increase in exercise, I may lose even more, faster. Proper nutrition while training is also going to be a major concern, but my dietitian gave me the name of an RD that has a site - BariAthletes, who deals specifically with this.
    Thanks, all!

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