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BigViffer

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  1. hey guys..... been a long time.  Update:  We are nearing a conclusion on the propery settlement with my ex.... it's been two longggg years.

    It will be two years March that my beloved Tina (my band) has been gone.  Not going to lie, keeping the weight off has been HARD... but still chugging along.  Weight is at 155ish.... but I joined Crossfit and my body is becoming more leaner and stronger.  I didn't realize how weak i had become.  I really thought id die doing crossfit.... but i have really started to love it.... I know... but i do.

    Two weekends ago... i bought my very first wedding dress.... (picture attached).  I know i was married twice but both were when i was prego... and never had one.  This is the last time, so im doing it right.  We are going to Jekyll Island Club Resort.... Looks like September 2019....

    Thursday the 7th we leave for a short mini vaca to San Pedro.... and then the Honeymoon May 15-24 is in Italy.... Venice, Florence and then Rome.  I know we are doing it backwards, the the trip was planned first.

    Miss you guys..... if anyone wants to fb me or Instagram or email.....  Christina Callahan Cenac (fb), christinacenac (Instagram) or christina2315dd@yahoo.com (email)

    P.S.   Yes the dress still needs adjustments... hehe

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    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      You are going to be a beautiful bride Bayou!

      Wow, still having to deal with that property settlement? Man, that is crazy.

      You so deserve all of this happiness you have found with Tim. I swear he is the reward for all the years of suffering. I hope he knows he got the rainbow unicorn!

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  2. i got so depressed last night.... As some of you know i got divorced at the beginning of the year.  I'm now in the process of cleaning out my house to sell  .... I was going through the filing cabinet. Files of house stuff like appliances, ac, insurances... etc.... then i got to the files of crap that my ex bought for himself... boats, all the **** that goes with it... troll motors, 150-200$ reals.. 100 rods... hundreds on fishing tackle.. Stereo systems for every veh HE owned.. (not my car), guns, camera's..$3000-6000 ... Lens, just one of which was $8000... I could go on and on.... but what really got to me, was in that entire file cabinet... I had 1 sheet of paper... not even a file... one sheet... my wedding ring that he bought for 1900 bucks.... that was it... it's all i had to show for 26 years of marriage.  All I could do was sit and cry.or 26 years of marriage.

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      Just affirmation that you have done the right thing Bayou. One can never truly appreciate the good days without the bad. Now you'll appreciate everything and see them for their true worth.

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  3. NSV- wore my g-string tonight...no more granny panties!

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      lol, you know the rule of the internet? Pic's or it didn't happen!

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  4. These past few weeks have been a roller coaster...  So in 18 day (march 10) i will be divorced.  In the mean time i, as you all know, have been dating.  And yes there have been many, i wanted to play the field for a while.  Few significant people:  Blaine, he was a guy i dated 30+ years ago, we reconnected, but he is not "available" so that's out of the picture.  Then there is Danny, he and i have been friends for about 30 years also, we never dated, but i did date his BF for a short while.  And Tim... Wow.... Tim and i have been dating for 4 months and i have to say, i thought men like him were existent. You know the kind, the ones that open all doors, pulls out your chair, helps with you jacket, holds your had, kisses you so passionately that your toes curl.  ahhhhh.  Here lies the the problem... Danny.  Danny and Tim are both head over hills in love with me.  Before Tim came along i spent most of my time with danny.  But, danny played it cool... pretended like we were just friends with benefits.  Now that he knows about Tim..... omg, the emotions have come out...  I hate hurting his feelings... but with Tim is where i want to be.  I told him this last night again... and he started to cry.  A 62 y/o man crying.....  This is all so crazy......  So at the end of March im going to meet Tim's family in GA.  I'm very excited about this.  I just simply just hate hurting peoples feelings.....  That's all Rant over...

  5. Had 3 garlic parmesean wings at TGI Fridays... wing dings at that! Lets just say the next 20-30 minutes for me will be real unpleasant. FOAMIES :(

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      oh god, I can totally relate to this. Even a year out it was a hellish experience. I even started a thread about it. Needless to say, I most likely won't ever have wings again.

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  6. I never imagined cottage cheese could taste so good! :-)

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      lol, I had to chuckle. My first "bite" of food was black bean hummus. I think I orgasmed.

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  7. woke up this am..... 125lbs. Lowest i have been in 25 years. When i gave birth to my son Jason... i was 135

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      Sounds like things are going your way finally Bayou!

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  8. I stepped onto the scales this morning and finally reached the milestone that I was begining to think would never come-ONEDERLAND! Do I have loose, saggy skin? You bet! But I would take that any day of the week over fat filled skin. There is a surgery to help correct that just like there was a surgery to help me get to where I am today. To finally see that number makes me feel even more determined to reach my goal and to maintain that for the rest of my life. So very grateful for my sleeve! Happy Monday everyone:)

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      That's fantastic! I know how you must feel, just nothing like it.

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  9. Six months post op today. It's hard to believe what all has been accomplished not just weight wise but also the change that cant be seen on the inside. I can say for the first time in a really long time, I love myself. I only wish I had done this years ago.

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      That's wonderful to hear! Regaining the feeling of self worth is probably one of the most important NSV one can obtain. Proud of your accomplishments so far!

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  10. Peek a boo! I see you!

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      @Babbs - you can't be a peeper with an open invitation!

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  11. Peek a boo! I see you!

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      I knew I saw someone in my window this morning as I was getting dressed, you perv!

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  12. I've been accused of a lot of things in my life, but never before today have I been accused of using a generic internet model as my picture.

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      lol, damn! I just can't win with you ladies! It's like we're married or something...

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  13. I've been accused of a lot of things in my life, but never before today have I been accused of using a generic internet model as my picture.

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      A generic internet model would be anyone that is not commonly known. Tyra Banks, Stephanie Seymore, and those other names you see all the time are "name brands" and all the ones you don't know are the generics. I guess I could have said an unnamed internet model.

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  14. I've been accused of a lot of things in my life, but never before today have I been accused of using a generic internet model as my picture.

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      Wait... are you saying I get to be the big spoon?! Who is going to be my little spoon then?

       

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  15. I've been accused of a lot of things in my life, but never before today have I been accused of using a generic internet model as my picture.

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      I'll admit it, it was I that said it. I had never gone through her gallery to know what she looked like before.

       

      Come on people, you know the brightly colored avatar she had a little while ago? It could have totally been a marketers photoshopped model used to push cosmetics!

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  16. I missed the gym more than I care to mention this week. In turn I have avoided the scales too. Not this morning though, I put my big girl panties on and stepped on...101 pounds down! So freaking excited:)

    1. BigViffer

      BigViffer

      Congratulations on the milestone! We all know how hard it is even with the surgery, so hang your head high girl.

       

      As for the gym, don't worry about the past, focus on the future. Work on your motivation. Make a playlist to pump you up. I happen to know a few really good Prince songs...

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