Stella S
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Stella S got a reaction from BayougirlMrsS in Follow up to my restaurant post
Bad service all all around! Hang in there - as a person that always needs to adjust the order I frequently do not give any reason just state I need whatever changes and smile... I hate bad service and do not have to apologize as a paying customer.
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Stella S got a reaction from mi75 in Why the same advice over and over?
I fall into the basics work to trim my regain - Water not wine, cheese not with a cracker. When I focus on water and protien I drop the weight. Removing over 30 carb works. Admiring those who do not have to continue the work!
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Stella S got a reaction from GivinItMyALL in Healthier, But Lonelier
KC that is a lot of food intolerance - maybe get a second opinion?? Also what about a different support group? Depending on your area you mAay be able to join another or an activity group. On line exercise - something to promote dopamine production. You have gone through a lot of changes - change is tough Maybe counseling, I hear every day that these are uncertain times! If you look at the national group takeoff pounds sensibly - TOPS they have categories for WLS and maintainers for those at goal. You are not alone. Best
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Stella S got a reaction from Tracyringo in Regained weight support
When reality sounds like negativity to me it’s time to change. Whether we want to call to reality check or something else it’s a key to go back to what works. Stop drinking choose your favorite healthy foods! It’s really great to hear the positive stories and the community. For many of us it is an every day or more days and not choice. It’s not that the road isn’t hard it’s that it can be both hard and good. ☮️
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Stella S got a reaction from HeidiK+15yrs in 15 Years postop, gained but back on track
How empowering the answers ere always within you. Stay true
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Stella S got a reaction from GivinItMyALL in Healthier, But Lonelier
KC that is a lot of food intolerance - maybe get a second opinion?? Also what about a different support group? Depending on your area you mAay be able to join another or an activity group. On line exercise - something to promote dopamine production. You have gone through a lot of changes - change is tough Maybe counseling, I hear every day that these are uncertain times! If you look at the national group takeoff pounds sensibly - TOPS they have categories for WLS and maintainers for those at goal. You are not alone. Best
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Stella S got a reaction from Clementine Sky in July 2020 WLS Veterans
So good to hear from you!!! I always appreciated your insight. 5 years out myself asof this April and in my happy range though I need to tone! Stay well my friends.
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Things I won't miss about being fat!
Do not miss being viewed as dumb
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Stella S got a reaction from orange_lily in What is the best feedback your therapist ever gave you?
Best 2 insights are that some things are hard and that is ok. Also that most things change
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Stella S got a reaction from LaLaDee in Arm lift next week - VERY UNPREPARED
Bum Protein up to heal! Best of luck.
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Pandemic Check In
That is the best description of a slippery slope ever Sideeeye! All is ok here - downs few lbs but all muscle Same size but jiggly Ugh
- was just planning on lotsa sex during the lock down but then it got real. Lost a few patients... stopped all self care for a bit. Now facing the changes to my programs and still seeing a few people in the clinic. I want an air conditioned gym!!!! Plus back to my original goal 😆
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Pandemic Check In
Coming up on two months but I have not gone to the clinic or the office with any sense of regularity. Spending time at home working more hours than I would have ever imagined. Healthwise I think I’m doing OK sure could use a little bit more sleep! Notice my cardio is down and have been correcting that the last week or so. Trying to eat what is in my house to gain some additional room seems like there is food here from the last couple years- The things to purchased perhaps try or somehow just end up in your house! This is one of life‘s great mysteries along with disappearing socks?
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Things I won't miss about being fat!
Do not miss being viewed as dumb
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Things I won't miss about being fat!
Do not miss being viewed as dumb
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Stella S got a reaction from LaLaDee in Arm lift next week - VERY UNPREPARED
Bum Protein up to heal! Best of luck.
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Things I won't miss about being fat!
Do not miss being viewed as dumb
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Stella S got a reaction from Krimsonbutterflies in Newbie on my Journey ... did you keep your journey a secret
I kept it private that is different than A Secret 5 years and 7 people know
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Stella S got a reaction from LaLaDee in Arm lift next week - VERY UNPREPARED
Bum Protein up to heal! Best of luck.
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Things I won't miss about being fat!
Do not miss being viewed as dumb
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Stella S got a reaction from GreenTealael in Things I won't miss about being fat!
Do not miss being viewed as dumb
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Stella S got a reaction from JessLess in Your Dr.'s goal weight/BMI for you?
The BMI calculator is not really a scale that measures health. Seems to me if doctors measure their success by getting others out of the morbidly obese area their success is higher. I encourage you to chart your own course and be your own judge!
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Stella S got a reaction from FatboySkin in Body Lift Surgeon Recommendations?
None of this is cheap - The person I utilized had a 4 day minimum - I had 5 days at 6 hours at 750.00. For a city with a minimum wage is $15 an hour I really thought this was good. I paid under the table and direct - LPN Also my spouse was with me during the night It was really really really really marvelous for him not to have some of the care responsibilities... as I stated I wish I would’ve done this for my two previous procedures. The Private Duty picked me up from the hospital brought me home and got me situated, Plus helped me with bathing and brought me to a follow up appointment The days were not consecutive.
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Stella S got a reaction from BriarRose in update on 10 years out regain, and weight loss
Excellent to hear your success - love the summer garden and ice cream 👍🏼
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Stella S got a reaction from Suzi_the_Q in 2020 Vets Updates
Just about 5 years lost from 225 to 120 and weighed today at 128.4 lbs. gained 12 lbs well was up to 142 after a post surgury infection this summer but it is now 2020 more days below 135 is good.
Menopause now I thought my weight was low and my periods had stopped but no it really is the next stage.
Yes I will always be a weight loss patient It is a unique ride we have shared.
Thanks you have been my rock and angels more than you will ever know. 🥂🍸🍷🍹🍾.
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Stella S got a reaction from sevenheaddragon in Any WLS peeps from 2014 still around?
Good to hear from all. Yes 5 yeaars this month I think or was it April? I come here in rounds as life happens Still tracking and logging my food with a weight of 127 or so. Always WLS person. 🌼🌞