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butterbean

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  1. Wow I have the same issues. I went to a restaurant for the 1st time last weekend and I wanted to eat as fast as everyone else in my group...Epic FAIL! How are you taking your Protein? Have you implemented exercise?

    I still use 1 Protein shake a day, but I eat egg whites, tilipia, chicken, greek yogurt, etc. I walk but I'm not really pushing myself yet. I need to up the intensity some but I'm enjoying it the way it is now. ;)


  2. I was sleeved on May 30 also. My numbers are below, in my signature. My biggest challenge is eating slowly, taking small bites and getting enough liquid in. I have had no complications, have no problem eating anything (nothing hurts or upsets my stomach), and I don't feel hunger, I just feel really empty and gurgly when it's time to eat.


  3. I don't want anyone to know, because I don't feel like dealing with the endless garage of bull**** I will have deal with over being too lazy to do it " the hard way", "taking the easy way out", "cheating and taking credit where IRS not deserved"..... You name it I will hear it. I work with a lot of people who are just snobs in general, but a lot of them are super health snobs/elitists. If you're not making dieting and hitting the gym a second full time job then you're just a big fat lazy slob and not worth the time of even saying good morning to. there are a lot who will not acknowledge my 'good morning'......but will acknowledge my thinner co-workers. Sad, but true.

    My husband knows (obviously), my mom knows, my sister knows, I suppose my sisters husband knows (I'm alright with that, he's a really good guy) but that's it. I don't want my dad to know because he already doesn't think much of me (no, really......it has been said, in so many words!). I absolutely under no circumstances want my in laws or husbands family to know. I would never, ever hear the end of it. I would never be able to eat or drink a crumb without being interrogated about whether or not I'm 'allowed to have it', I would always have to recap how I'm 'going', and endure constant criticisms of how I 'should be much thinner by now, surely'. Because that's how it was with the band.......until I didn't turn into a stick insect over night (because that's the ultimate health marker in this family.......if you're not anorexic looking then you are fat fat fat and going to die in about 3 minutes.)

    So, I'm not ashamed, but I just don't feel like dealing with all the a**holes in the world any more than I already have to! :-D

    I plan on telling people that ask that I'm having lady surgery. It's technically not a lie.....I'm a lady.....I'm having surgery. End of story.

    yes...I feel the same way. Lots of health nuts that print out research to give to me saying how awful Crystal Lite is. Really?? They don't have anything better to do???


  4. This is very hard for me too. My coworkers haven't seen me since 8 days before surgery and I'm almost 2 MONTHS postop. I look different! I saw a few today and they asked too many questions...typical conversation...

    Them: You've lost weight? What are you doing??

    Me: Thank you! Portion Control, eating lean Protein, lot of Water, exercising...just really committed!

    Them: Are you taking pills? did you go to the doctor?

    Me: Just Vitamins. I've seen a nutritonist too.

    Them: How much have you lost?

    Me: Since when? Haha! Over a lifetime probably a thousand pounds, this time I'm committed to keeping it off?

    Them: Good for you! Did you have a bypass???

    Me: CRAZY look on my face...No, gastric bypass is not for me.

    I never lie, but I am not truthful. I feel sleezy and dishonest. I teach so I interact with a lot of women, and they don't let things go easily. I just don't want to be judged.


  5. i live of of tilipia, egg whites, and greek yogurt.

    You can get individually frozen 4 oz filets of tilipia at Walmart. You can bake them or george foreman them, and I have every kind of of Mrs. Dash available to change up the flavor.

    Egg whites-I use liquid egg whites. 9 tblsp is 15 g of Protein. I add a little salsa, cheese, spinach, or even hot sauce to change up the taste.

    I hate greek yogurt too, but i got some sugar free Syrup to add to it and it really improved the taste.

    I also bought one of those little plastic Popsicle maker containers and added my Protein Drink to it to make Protein popsicles. :)


  6. I'm a teacher too and go back August 4 and I've begun making a "plan".

    5:00 wake up

    5:10 drink Protein Drink and take meds while reading

    5:30 ellipitcal

    6:00 make eggs, eat, shower and dress

    7:10 wake up kid and hubby and leave for work (he is a teacher too but doesn't have to be at work nearly as early as me)

    7:30 arrive at school and start first 20 oz of Water

    9:00 make sure first 20 oz of water are finished

    9:30 snack (during a literacy center but what can you do?)

    11:12 lunch time (carry lunch EVERY DAY. Keep a few a few Protein Drinks in desk just in case).

    12:00 start 2nd 20 oz of water

    3:30 students leave-I have a little snack

    4:00 gym or walking/tennis with coworkers

    5:00 pick up child from afterschool and spend time with him

    6:00 start dinner

    6:30 eat dinner (hubby is a coach so 6:30 is the earliest we can eat as a family)

    7:00 keep eating as I clean up or help kid with homework (hubby and I take turns cleaning/doing homework)

    7:30 start last 20 oz of water No more food after dinner.


  7. I'm only a few weeks out but my experiencing is teaching me that people now assume it. :( I did not tell many people either and I knew who I could tell to keep it private and have a good attitude about it, and I knew who would be negative and gossipy. People ask my husband, not me, if I have had surgery which is very rude imo. When people have watched me struggle with my weight for years and then they see me losing weight at this pace, they just assume I've had it.


  8. kanye-Stronger

    rhianna-we found love in a lonely place

    lmfao-sexy and I know it

    eminem-til i collapse

    kelly clarkson-stronger

    usher-scream

    flo rida- wild ones

    and my favorite that I always keep for last, right before my cool down, MJ-don't stop till ya get enough

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