Thank you for your wonderful stories and resources I definitely check out those web sites, I have been to 2 info seminars and both were very informative I'm looking to attend a couple of support groups at the hospital which is mandatory by my insurance co. Anyway I am looking forward to this journey I have been reading everything and anything I can and also talking to friends and family and you guys. Thank you for the advice there is always some comfort in talking to people in the same boat.