As the best friend of someone who had WLS let me say without judgement or negativity, your friend may be scared and jealous. She is overweight, too. She may feel like if your weight loss surgery is successful, she may lose you. I know I was and still am jealous of my best friend but that hasn't stopped me from being supportive and happy for her. I need to work on getting myself to where I need to be and realize that my hurt feelings are no ones fault but my own. I may be wrrong about your friend, but it's just another perspective.
