My new relationship .....with food.

[jjmcrash218 94]

The biggest and absolute strangest byproduct of this surgery is actually the psychological detachment from the absolute love of food. I heard it before the operation but....did I understand it? I really look back before the operation to my (yes) obsession with food, how addicted and enslaved I was to the thought of food. How I planned meals around every event, .... I admit in the months before the operation....trying to do "the final tour" of all my favorite foods in abundance.... saying goodbye as you will. There never could be enough food........

Then the operation....

the first few days were rough....but ....no hunger. The day back home I got a cold slap of reality when my wife was cooking bacon..."she profusely apologized "Oh I'm sorry...this must be torture to you!" but no it wasn't... the bacon aroma smelled nice but there wasn't that attachment to oh let me try some.... no it was like when you smell flowers....you'd never eat a flower...because it dosent trigger it.... The liquid diet over the next few weeks really challenges you not in the amount you eat...but variety.... A new taste of say cream of chicken a few days in is delightful. learning to eat slower and learning the full point becomes an art in itself. But (at least in my case I still enjoy what I eat, but the crazy cravings are gone.

One thing I thought that I would loose is my love of cooking..... but no I am still cooking for the family. My dinner is usually made seperate... but you can still do it. Best advice is buy yourself some small plates! It really works.

Like the alcoholic....and the junkie.... we did harm to our bodies with food... and food ruled our thoughts and actions. You have to look at it that way. Looking back I realize that now. I am thankful now for this tool of VSG surgery. and for this forum to put it into words.... Thanks

[Pac-woman 325]

Excellent post.

[CanyonBaby 1,852]

For me it was the "shock" of no longer wanting to eat out. I used to LOVE eating out - I didn't have to cook, and I love being waited on - you know, the special treatment! Looking forward to going to somewhere special, having something I never make at home. Now, since I eat so little, it just doesn't hold the same appeal. And I, too, say "thank you" for the surgery, because I don't want food to be the reason I want to go out anymore. Now I want to go out and go hiking, or shopping or playing with my puppies. There IS life after food!

[Flygirl123 150]

I can't wait to experience this.. Thank you for sharing.

[blondebomb 580]

I totally agree with you!! exactly! I couldnt have said it any better..