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Dating can really suck. I met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We really hit it off and spent some time together every day.

Last night I found out he has a gf in another town, about 50 miles from here. His friend told me not to get hung up on this guy because he always cheats on his gf but then drives back the 50 miles to see her and will spend 10 days or so with her at her house.

I asked him about it and he thought it would be just fine if he kept us both, and I shouldn't get mad when he goes to see her.

Good Grief! I may just have to give up on men. There's a reason guys in my age group are single.

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Single and ready to mingle! lol

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Single

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Being sleeved or whatever weight loss surgery you have had, does not make relationships any easier. I have gone through quite a few, in the almost 9 years since I've lost all my weight.

They work out for awhile, but relationships take work, and it's so easy to run and try out the next best thing. Guys don't seem to want to work out problems.

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Single female in northwestern Pennsylvania, 37.

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Hmm

Just had my sleeve 8 days ago. Am thinking it might be wise to taking a dating break... Plus size dating is hard enough then add in hmm Starting A whole new life. I think I may bite off more than I can chew lol:)

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Fairly new here, having surgery in the next couple of months. I think a singles site/page is a great idea. I like the thought of having someone who is going through, or has gone through, the same thing I am and has to eat the same way I do!

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